During a long relationship, usually, people start to take things for granted. They don’t pay much more attention like before, or they seem to lose interest in different things, even their partner. And these behaviors can lead to many problems in the relationship.
At first, your girl couldn’t wait to reply to your text just to not let you wait, but suddenly one day you just wake up without her good morning text, or without her beside you. She would rather be going to sleep with someone else, who shows her love, kindness, respect, interest. She will choose someone who loves her back with the same intensity and interest, all these things that you never did.
You can do everything to gain her love, but you will not get anything from her anymore, because she loves another man now that is not you, and the thoughts she has for you will never change.
After all been through, she will not look at you with the same eyes. She has her heartbroken, so she is not going to be with you, romanticize with you, or even thought of you. Women can notice everything in a relationship, details that men don’t see. You must be very careful because the first error can bring your wife to just leave you. If she doesn’t take back all the love she gave you, then she will give this love only to herself. She will be happier, will change her attitude, her way of speaking, and herself. You will notice this confidence in her that you didn’t care before, and you will feel a pinch of regret.
You will be nostalgic for the time passed together, and you will feel sorry for not loving her enough. Furthermore, you are going to regret losing a girl who loved you with all her heart.
You will miss her so much but can’t do anything to win her back. The only thing to do is accept the fact that she will not be yours anymore. Your girl will make you be the center of attention, will always speak about you in the best way, even after the breakup, and you should just appreciate that. She would make you feel so loved. You would be the first person that she will text and call for everything and would reply to you very quickly to not let you lose your time.
You will start to notice these things after the breakup when you will look at your old pictures together, your text, and your memories. Furthermore, you are going to feel nostalgic for the old times spent together, and you will start to appreciate more the smaller details in a relationship, things that you didn’t before. It is only now you will learn the lesson and do better in the next relationship.
You will miss the time when she pays attention to you when she made you gifts for your birthday or anniversary just to show the love she had for you. You will miss her coming to you and just asking you how you’re doing and how are you. Furthermore, you will miss her sweet words, her caresses, and when she says that she loved you. In the past, you started to take these things for granted, so next time you already know that you must always pay attention to these beautiful details.
In these moments of sensitivity, you feel down, your heart is broken. You are afraid of the fact that you are not going to find another girl who will love you as much as your last girl did. But, for sure, if you start changing some things about yourself and start to give much more attention and be more interested you will find a good girl who will love you back and is going to hug these details with kindness.
Your ex-girlfriend has decided to take steps forward, so do you. Don’t be sad or drown in your sea of tears, wake up and start to change your life and be better for yourself at first. In this story, you are the one who came up as a loser, now leave these things behind your shoulders and start your new life. It is not easy, this is going to be hard for you, but there is no choice. You should let her go.